shady m*therf*ckers.

yep...shady m*therf*ckers...i call family.

my mom has willingly taken care of my grandfather (her father) and her disabled brother (my uncle) for over 6 yrs straight and four years previously. my grandfather has 4 other sons who can take care of him..and none of them offered their home. none of them bothered to come visit him once a week or to take him out to eat.

so when g-father decided to go back to the mother country to live out the rest of his days...my 2 shady uncles ganged up on my mom and accused her of kicking out their dad.

note: never had these two men EVER called g-father for a conversation. never had they ever offered to take him out for a while. never had they offered financial assistance for their dad and brother. never had they known what it's like to take care an elderly father, a mentally disabled brother, and a seriously disabled, cardiac-challenged spouse while holding down a full time job as well as cooking and cleaning duties.

these m*therf*ckers should be thanking my mom on their hands and knees b/c she's the one who sponsored their lazy ungrateful spiteful asses over here to the U.S. if it wasn't for her, they wouldn't be "stunting" with their cars or living in their single homes, or even have their kids ever.

i wish no harm on them..i just want karma to kick back in full force. blah!

how do you comfort a mother who feels betrayed and is sobbing helplessly on a chair?

no worries mommy i'm here for you...screw them. they never respected you as an older sister, so when they are caught in a bind, turn a blind eye and focus your energy on you...b/c you deserve time for yourself....love you!!!!

frustrated

ok. so i had this religious ephiphany that i should stop having sex until i get married. thing is, i'm already engaged and have no date set within the near future. i take this seriously - to the point of no touching or fondling, not even masturbation (although i slipped three times so far)...just good old fashioned hand holding and kissing on the lips.

i did this in part to drive fiance wild and hopefully bring out his inner don juan and pray that he seduces me....but mostly again it was for religious purpose.

unintentional side effects are frustration and an undeniable sense of high-strung attitude. damn this "great" idea.

this started all in october 2007. and it seems as if i'll get married in 2010...and the fiance is watching porn!!! darn.

Yelp Backlash?!

WTF. So I yelp'ed a new Korean restaurant. The review was not degrading or even negatively - fairly neutral. Then I got attacked by a coworker who happens to work there as well. Her verbal vomit included why would I write such negative things and accusing me of stating i'd rather go XXX. First off, I didn't write that - I gave props to the place for decor. I review food...and the food wasn't there at all. She had not even eaten at her work place so why jump down on my throat?

This coming from the same lady who is desperate for a date with ANYONE. Psh figures.

She assumes that my word is gold and people will be discouraged from patronizing the establishment...oh ye of little common sense.